Portia Opens Up About Relationship With Bongani After Married at First Sight SA
Portia Baloyi, a standout personality from Married at First Sight South Africa Season 2, has shared her reflections on her experience on the show and her current relationship status with her on-screen husband, Bongani Luvalo. The reality experiment, which streamed on Showmax, followed four couples who married as strangers.
A Rollercoaster of Emotions
Portia describes her journey as a "rollercoaster," admitting that she didn't anticipate the intensity of marrying a stranger in front of the entire country. "Coming into this, I knew it wasn’t going to be easy but I also didn’t expect it to be this intense," she explained.
Despite the challenges, Portia acknowledges moments of personal growth. "There’ve been amazing moments, don’t get me wrong, but also real challenges. It’s stretched me emotionally and spiritually, but I’ve also grown so much."
Lessons Learned and Facing the Reunion
One of the key takeaways for Portia was learning to communicate more intentionally. She emphasized the importance of taking a breath before reacting. The reunion episode, hosted by Relebogile Mabotja, was filled with "mixed emotions," as she was both nervous and curious to see everyone again after having time to reflect.
"I’m proud of myself for showing up fully and being true to who I am. I didn’t hold back and that’s something I’ll always stand by."
Relationship Status with Bongani: "We're Still Figuring Things Out"
Addressing the burning question on everyone's minds, Portia revealed that she and Bongani are "still figuring things out." She stated that they've had "real conversations" since filming ended and are not in the same place as they were on decision day.
Watching Herself on TV and Moving Forward
Seeing her relationship unfold on national television was a "wild" experience for Portia, providing her with perspective and helping her understand how she comes across to others. Since announcing her divorce, Portia says both she and Bongani are prioritizing personal healing. Her focus is now on peace, growth, and rebuilding herself.
A New Chapter
Looking ahead, Portia is embarking on a new chapter centered on purpose, faith, and self-discovery. She intends to focus on her work, passions, and aligning with the woman she is becoming. "I’m stepping into a new chapter, one centred on purpose, faith, and self-discovery. I want to focus on my work, my passions, and the things that truly feed my soul," she stated.
She takes accountability for her part in everything, emphasizing that she loved deeply and tried her best. Her priority now is choosing peace over pain. "I take full accountability for my part in everything that’s happened. I’ve learned, I’ve grown, and I hold no bitterness,” Portia says.
Married at First Sight SA: A Journey of Growth and Healing
Portia Baloyi has been undeniably one of Married at First Sight SA's most memorable personalities. Season 2 continues to trend on social media, reminding viewers that love, growth, and healing are all interconnected. The show is currently streaming on Showmax.
